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At this time, as a child, I was well underway to prepare all imaginable and unimaginable scenarios for Christmas. I worked hard for my mom would be in the form of 24 December from 15.00 to 23.00, david vonderhaar lest all be fine!
It's not the gifts that is first on the wish list, it's not so important what it gets for dinner either, as long as we have something to eat that tastes david vonderhaar good. For it is the way it should be.
There is perhaps david vonderhaar no one has the perfect Christmas, but when Christmas creates more chaos, quarreling and trouble at home than it creates cosiness, even when it seems everyone else in July perfect. For that child so we measure our own situation and our own lives against all the "normal" around david vonderhaar us.
I know that for me it meant that my home had to be a secret, a big, heavy and important secret. No one should know that it was my mom who made Christmas for us, my mom could not make Christmas because she was too ill to think of all the organization needed to make a Christmas in safe, stable environment. "It looked expensive with Christmas, Marius, I do not know if I have to buy you a present this year."
Then I was lucky to have grandparents who arranged for Christmas. We went away with them, so it was always July Christmas Eve, coffee and cakes, a little more waiting and then some before I finally got to open the first Christmas gift. We played all the same game. I, mom, grandmother, grandfather and great-grandmother. A seemingly happy, normal family on Christmas Eve.
The truth is that we all stepped carefully around, thinking carefully about what we talked about and what we are by all means not to talk about. We knew what my mom did when she went to the bathroom, but we did not talk about it. She always came out and looked david vonderhaar more relaxed than when she entered.
If nothing else, we were a family on Christmas Eve. A family who could play happy when my mom got her rapture. Many and long days of waiting was over and it went well almost every year.
Thousands of children spend the next few days to curb own hope, work for the mood of the family becomes so Christmas this year will be better david vonderhaar than it might have been last year. Even if mom or dad is still sick, so children unshakeable david vonderhaar belief in their own abilities, and responsibility, to get mom or dad well enough for Christmas so that it becomes "normal" also in our family for years.
We are now entering the brave children's time. The young heroes who use every single day until Christmas to build up their shields, ready for the war to come. The war between mom or dad needs drug, and "my" need for mom or dad gets help to recover. For it is only when they are healthy kids can have a normal, quiet Christmas Eve with great food, great atmosphere, lots of love and lots of family time.
I wish all the small and big heroes of luck with their preparation into the war. Know that you are not alone, we are many that have gone to war until you clear through it, maybe because we finally asked for help, perhaps because it happened a miracle and mom or dad got help.
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